Comments on: who should die? tell me about your hate ?

By: LadyBug

LadyBug — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:51:59 +0000

My ex-husband because of all the terrible things he did to me over the 22 year period of our marriage, but especially during the 3 years since our divorce. He stole from me–literally, by getting a credit card in my name, activating it, and then using it. I found out when he didn’t pay the bill and the bank called me! He cheated on me–too many times to count during the last 7 years of our marriage. And can you begin to imagine the lies he told me in order to get by with it? He was fired from numerous jobs for surfing on porn sites on the net while at work. Also for being caught . . . making love? . . . with a woman in his car during the lunch hour. I paid off his student loans which cost me a big, big chunk of my retirement money and now I probably won’t be able to retire–EVER. He allowed two homes that we owned to go into foreclosure even though it’s part of our Divorce Settlement Agreement that he would pay my mortgage until I die or remarry. Die I may someday for sure, but remarry? Not in this lifetime.

Need I go on? He’s a pathological liar, a thief, a sociopath, a cheat, a person with no integrity, morals or core values. He is a worthless piece of DNA. Had he died at birth the world would have been a better place.

Thanks for asking.
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By: Kathy M

Kathy M — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:10:59 +0000

Oh what a great question!! My heart is pounding now with excitement because I think I am going to be a philosopher! I’m going to take your question a step further and ask people to answer your question under the word "fear" instead of hate because all hatred falls under the root emotion of fear. So instead of "do you hate Christians" it would be "Do you fear Christians".

I came to understand that there are only two great emotions. Love and it’s opposite….Fear. For most of my life I thought the opposite of love was hate. Now I see that every negative way of thinking falls under the heading of fear…including hate.

I fear every organized religion because it has the ability to become radical. So I don’t hate religion but I fear what it does to some people. Radical Christians blow up abortion clinics and radical Islamists blow up themselves and everyone else around them. Radical Christians burn people who they think are witches. I really don’t see a big difference in their narrow mindedness. They would both say they are doing these things because it’s God’s will. They believe it’s God’s will because someone told them it was. That gives me fear! Religion gives me fear!

Hitler could not have risen to the power he attained if people had not been willing to give him that power. So if you’re going to hate Hitler…hate every human being that didn’t use their power to stand up against him. People not realizing their power gives me fear!

I hate that we concentrate on judging others for being different instead of realizing our connectedness to others. And I hate that religion and government are put into place to subdue people…to keep them "in line"

But deeper than hate..for me..is fear. And I’m frightened to death that in this place and time, people still don’t know that the power of their own free thinking can change an entire universe.
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By: Stephanie Z

Stephanie Z — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:23:59 +0000

Hating someone is like burning down your own house to kill a rat.
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By: Century25

Century25 — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 22:38:59 +0000

I am smitten by the pathos of human ignorance. Hate does not enter the picture for me. Everyone is equal on this little orb. It is only the greed that has caused people to ‘divide and conquer’ – the people of this earth.

Ignorance.. it has been cultivated. Think about it. Most people are ’smart’ but if knowledge is purposely withheld from society… (it has of course) – well.. it is like having to re-invent the wheel, over & over again.. multiplied by so much more that exists and is data long known & ‘forgotten’ with help of course.

Things look grim indeed for this earth..
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By: urbane radio

urbane radio — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 22:20:59 +0000

funny question, i like it. we all have felt a hatred for something/someone. we’re selfish beings, its only natural when things dont go our way. and of course in a fit of rage we internally (sometimes externally) wish for a particular death. but is that necessary? seems that while we all have done this people tend to just move on, its an accumulation of frustration

hatred happens, the best that can be done is to let it pass, we all have irrational moments, but in a rational world/society hatred has no place. so do the corporate execs and the politicians really deserve to die? did they cause the economic crisis and thus should be punished? if you say yes one has to wonder what sorts of impossible perfection youve lived up to in order to justify such an opinion. that sets quite the standard and resembles a large iron fist. but to say no one deserves to die brings into question the ethical practice of the death penalty, or whether men like adolf hitler or saddam hussein deserved death. and the most dangerous choice is to say we pick and chose…

i dont want a peace written with the blood of man, to say any of the groups or people you mention deserve to die i would be admitting i do too. while they may be annoying or an inconvenience, that appears to be the life we’re given

and since you mentioned a concept as an alternative, i will say war. all of this just so i can say; i dont like war

*kathy m, thats an excellent answer, i think i love your mind. but maybe im actually afraid
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